March 2013
The Myth: Pennsylvania does not award
alimony.
The Truth: Pennsylvania law provides alimony to a
financially dependent spouse based upon her or his reasonable
needs, the payor's ability to pay and consideration of 17
factors, including the length of marriage, and the earning
disparity between the parties.
The Myth: Individually titled assets such as
pensions are not divided in a divorce.
The Truth: Marital property subject to division
in divorce consists of any assets, regardless of title, that either
party acquired from the date of marriage to the date of final
separation, with the exception of assets owned before marriage,
received from a third party or from an inheritance.
The Myth: Marital property is divided equally
(50/50) between spouses.
The Truth: Pennsylvania divides marital property
(and debts) equitably, not necessarily equally, based upon 11
factors, such as the earnings and health of the parties.
The Myth: A seven-year relationship constitutes
a common law marriage.
The Truth: A common law marriage requires the
exchange of words of present intent to be married, such as "I
take you to be my wife/husband." Pennsylvania abolished common
law marriage effective January 25, 2005. Any alleged common law
marriage entered into after that date is void.
The Myth: Adultery by one spouse will result in
a larger economic award to the other spouse.
The Truth: Adultery is not a factor for the
division of marital assets. Adultery is only one of 17 factors for
an award of alimony and is not always given as high degree of
consideration as other economic factors.
The Myth: Mothers have an advantage in custody
cases.
The Truth: Pennsylvania custody law is gender
neutral. Sixteen factors are considered in awarding custody
including the child's bond to each parent and each person's
parenting capacity.
The Myth: A shared physical custody arrangement
means that neither parent pays child support.
The Truth: Under a shared (50/50) physical
custody arrangement, the higher-earning parent has to pay child
support to the other parent.
The Myth: Second or subsequent marriages have a
better chance of success based upon lessons learned from the first
or prior marriage.
The Truth: The latest divorce statistics reflect
that more than 40 percent of first marriages end in divorce and
increase to 60 percent for second marriages and 73 percent for
third marriages.
The Myth: The parties must appear in court to
get divorced.
The Truth: Many divorce cases settle without the
parties ever entering the courthouse.
The Myth: If one parent fails to pay child
support then the other parent can withhold custody.
The Truth: Failure to pay child support is not a
legitimate basis to withhold custody and such conduct is frowned
upon by the courts.
Previously published in Family Law Practical Advice
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